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Sean D – Page 19 – Instant Sean

Author: Sean D

  • Can I have a dog… NO!

    Whatever Lola wants…

    How many times have I said no since Joanna and I started to mourn the loss of our wonderful family member Mugsy Red Raider Von Lubbock?

    It was closing in on a cool 10K when I talked to my mom.

    She was the former breeder and knew all the places to find good dogs and where to separate the wheat from the chaff as my late grandpa might say.

    So, one night before Christmas, right before mom was to go onto a trip to Switzerland and Germany to go to market, I brought up the idea.

    She was cautious but excited.

    “He would want you to move on…, ” she said with a tone in her voice that I have heard many times but ignored.

    I let it go and never brought it up again until Friday night as a lark.

    “Why don’t you find us a puppy mom?”

    “Two,” Joanna said with the tone of more of a wish, than a request.

    “ONE, no more. No less.”

    So Mom was off and Friday was a bust, her usual suspects were either out of the business or had changes their number.

    I had completely forgotten about it, and Joanna was sad, but knew that when the time was right, we’d find the right dog.

    Now, my mom had started again on Saturday and had asked of me and Jo our favorite things to look for. Joanna wanted a Black and Tan Dachshund, but it didn’t matter to me. It was about the personality that had molded me from Brooke, grandpa’s black lab, to Mugs, that to this day must not be taunted.

    “When you see my dog mom, you’ll know. You’ll see something in his eye, a fire that won’t quit. If you see that. You will have found my dog.”

    I had forgotten about that early in the day call, knowing that no matter what, if something was going to happen, it would happen when I least expected it.

    Joanna and I were having a late dinner at On the Border (sorry FTC, no payment by them here) when Mom called. I had my mouth full and I missed the call and just thought that I would call her back.

    Then she called again.

    Something was up.

    “You have a new baby dachshund, a black and tan dapple. Beautiful markings and Sean, I saw a couple of others, but this dog had fire. He was fearless in playing with the dogs much larger than he.”

    Joanna and I had some names in mind, but I never named a dog without looking at him, I mean, there are some dogs that are named SPOT for a reason.

    Joanna HAD to go to Petsmart, then Target (dog Woof!) to get the animal all sorts of appropriate items. She looked at dog clothing but my John Casey growl caused her to walk away.

    So we went to the house staying up till two in the morning, cleaning the house preparing for one dog.  Joanna wanted to get the dog right then, but I thought that we should wait until the 30th and I would pick up the dog while she was doing a jewelry party in San Angelo. However, life isn’t how we plan sometimes.

    And along came Keegan

    The next morning as we woke up to go to church my dad and mom called.

    One of my nieces, Kaitlyn had fallen MADLY in love with “Spotty” as she called him.

    “If you don’t come and get him today, you’ll lose him. I can guarantee that,” my dad said.

    My dad rarely kids.

    I told my mom that we really wasn’t prepared to go.

    She was disappointed and I took a shower trying to figure out how I could get the dog on Saturday after my promotional remote for work.

    I had things that I had to bring my Mom and Dad, gifts from Angel Fire and from the wedding that somehow wasn’t given to them.

    And I left them all on the counter.

    I had brought a dusty soft plastic dog kennel and a blanket and we had reached a little past Abilene when my Mom, who had given in and went to get my niece Kaitlyn her own puppy, called and asked the question that has turned this family upside down…

    “Would you like another one? Someone to play with while you two are at work?” There was nothing I can do, but hand the phone to Joanna and a glint in her eye of pure joy began.

    “You need to work on the fence tonight,” she said as she hung up the phone.

    I had a premonition that no matter what happened, that I wouldn’t be working on the fence that night.

    So as we got to my parents house Dad opened the door and ignoring requests for hugs until we forced them on him, led us to the cage.

    Led us to our dog.

    Now he was the our one choice, the perfect dog. And Aengus is gaelic for One Choice so Aengus McGee joined our family.

    We played outside and had some fun and Mom brought in our second dog. He shook and shook , scared as he could be.

    But when we let him down to potty he became an Olympic athlete.  He darted from here and there, wiggling out of peoples hands and he was so smart that he would do things so we wouldn’t catch him (i.e. hiding underneath the truck).

    We named him Keegan Patrick, Keegan for his fiery personality and speed, and Patrick for my late brother, who seemed to always be wiggling out of situations.

    After dinner and hugs, we started for home.

    But we had to drop off a thank you note at Joanna’s Aunt’s house and while the dogs both enjoyed the use of her yard to relax and piddle, I watched the 3rd quarter of the Saints game.  Joanna showed her aunt pictures of the wedding on their computer.

    We , since the dogs were tired now and kenneled up in their travel carrier, headed home, stopping twice more to let them out for stretching and doing their business.

    Finally home.

    We finally got home at 2 A.M. and took them to their new huge box and crashed watching them look at us and then crawl into a ball on their blanket.

    We took them to the vet because Aengus had a very bloody stool this afternoon and we were concerned.

    The vet gave both dogs medicine for Aengus’s bacterial infection and said that they thought Aengus may have worms but they thought it was just a hair.

    Joanna came home to study for her EMT exam, as I reorganized the newly improved kitchen  cabinets when Joanna called me to help clean up dog poo.

    And TRAGEDY, as I saw the little signs of a puppy who has worms.

    So tomorrow we have to notify the vet, that they were wrong and that the dogs both need to be dewormed AGAIN.

    We notified my mom to have her have the other dogs that were bought from this breeder checked out.

    And I find quite ironic, that the dog that we named for the Wiggle Worm, may not have worms, but the “One Choice” did.

    And that my friends is just another story that once again you can’t make up.

  • The year of hiding from the university

    2010, a year fresh in our minds with anticipation of greater things.

    But then I received two SEPARATE e-mails yesterday that had the following chilling similar words…

    Tech is monitoring this stuff and I understand there will be consequences for businesses that hammered the University. I don’t want you to needlessly get caught in the cross-fire on this.

    and then…

    Tech is monitoring your work and your recent facebook posts.  I understand there will be consequences for businesses/people that WRONGLY went against the University. Sean , please don’t get caught up on this.

    Are you freaking kidding me?

    One is from a friend who is behind the scenes at the university, the other is from someone who was shut up from the university.

    I am saddened to think that such low, mafia style actions of threats and innuendo are taking place in this world today especially from a public university.

    But I’ve seen the actions of this University before.

    Case 1 : I was advised poorly and quickly and wasn’t given an opportunity to graduate as fast as I could from the university.

    The end result : Yes, I didn’t get the grades I needed to pass certain classes.  Yes, I worked overnights which slowly caused my self destruction from the university. However, when I was gaining more practical knowledge from actually doing the work I was supposed to be trained for than at Tech. I left Tech after I was told that they didn’t and wouldn’t ever offer my classes at any other time (so like nights so I could take and graduate) since it was a dying profession.  I decided that even though I wouldn’t graduate from Tech I would give them my dedication because I believed in the teams and coaches.

    Case 2:  When one of my most favorite mentors and friends Dr. Clive Kinghorn decided to retire, I encouraged my bosses to go to the university to offer to help with the campus radio station, offering training and a path to real world jobs.

    The end result: Tech said that they had “people” that would HELP the students.  They turned us away with prejudice.  And years later they closed down the campus station, handing it over to someone who wanted a Jazz station in the first place. Remember Derrick,  you were an production intern to me at KTXT.  You told me your dream of having a Jazz station in Lubbock.  Years later, you got one.

    Case 3:  I watched a good friend of mine get railroaded from the job that he had because he spoke out against the administration.

    The end result: No it wasn’t Mike Leach, it was another friend.  But I watched this man who used to be so integral to the area that he was involved with, die away because he spoke out against the administration.  Now he teaches elsewhere… Thank You sir, for the times you let me speak to your class, thank you sir for telling me that I needed to follow my dream because the university would still be here.

    I followed my dream.  I have a career and I have survived.

    I could tell you about the time Texas Tech tried to get me fired from my job, but my point is made already.

    I still wear red and black. I still cheer for the team, but in my one act of defiance, I will not sing the Matador song.

    For the line that is : “Strive for honor evermore…” will stick in me as honor is gone.

    For those who threaten my career, my family and my name are not honorable at all.

  • The Lou Holtz quote of the day…

    “If you have a problem, it’s YOUR problem. Solve it. Ninety percent of the people you meet don’t care about your problems, and the other ten percent are glad you have them.”

  • Hours in Bed, Bath & Beyond…

    Why?

    Because that’s what a good fiance does.

    I could give a rats ass about the whole wedding stuff , because I just want the end result.

    Me + Joanna = Forever. How we get there doesn’t matter. 

    Over this last weekend I heard about our getaway car, being specially rebuilt for this one special day and transported down by our favorite car builder Jeff Kruger. It’s a 1967 Ford Mustang Convertable.

    When Joanna saw it, she was in love.  They finally got the transmission working so it would go forward.  For the longest time, it would only go in reverse. I blame not enough crown and too much sweat.

    I can’t wait to see the final result.

    Joanna and I have sent out the final set of invitations.  Funny story, I sent out an invitation thinking that we had missed it, and got a call from a friend asking why they got two invitations. Yes, Joanna had sent one in the first batch, and the excuse of the wedding came in.

    “You got two because we really, really want you there!”

    Some of my friends and her friends aren’t going to be able to make it and we both understood. We both knew that because of the timing, people would have plans, and we would be blesses by whoever made it.

    In other great news, we’re off to Oklahoma next weekend.  Joanna and I are going to drive up to see Gary Cox, his wife Carrie and the meanest son of a bitch in the state of Oklahoma. ( I know it isn’t true, but I have to help his self esteem.

    All we have to do is worry about gas, the Low Limit Grinder is putting us  in the FABulous Okie Vegas Party Facilities in beautiful Fort Cobb lake, then we will be escorted by the MSOBITSOO to Stillwater where he has tickets for us to see his Oklahoma State Cowgirls take on MY Texas Tech Red Raiders.

    It should be fun.

    And a side note to Gary after yesterday’s bull with the kids…

    It’s still business brother.

  • “Well, I expect…” FICTION

    anger

    Anthony looked at the end of the bed. As he stared as his cold bare feet he knew that his live-in maid/ on and off girlfriend had somehow screwed with the blanket.

    It isn’t easy being 6′ 10 and he usually can’t have a bed with a foot board at the end. Some hotels (especially Lisbon) he would find himself hanging off the bed.  But then again, this is his story…

    “Honey, don’t you understand I don’t ask for much from you,” she started.

    “Expected what which time dear,” I asked wishing that I could find the aspirin.  My head was hurting and I took one of those headache powders.  I could down these damn things like they were my ex to white powder.

    “Tony, don’t you understand, all I need you to do is fold up your socks, kill the roaches and any bugs I see and clean the windows.  You know I NEVER do the windows.” (more…)